- if the person that you know is having some problem, you will really put yourself in their shoes not just pretend to be in. So, you will feel burdened, headache, sad, and everything all in once. Plus you are raised in a different way, so you will be reacting differently. Complicated isn't it...
- if the person that you know did something to you and they don't realize it. to make worst, the person that you know also know you well or pretend to know you. so you will feel double the hurt. Imagine how hard it is.
So why bother getting know each other only to get hurt. Tricky right? I don't have the answer myself. I have something in my mind but it is not totally the conclusion yet. For me the burdened, the headache, the sadness and feeling other feelings that is what being friend means. Remember, you also feel the joy, the happiness et cetera et cetera while being friend and with your friends. It is not fair to accept only the good side of friendship while repelling the good side of friendship. this Also apply to mankind. Everybody has their own weakness and strength, so we have to accept both. You cannot extract my goodness and separated it from my body. Me, my strengths, and my weaknesses are one. If you are my friends that you are also my weaknesses and my strengths friends.
For the part of being hurt, you can just made an excuse that they maybe don't realize that they behaving that way. Once they did, it's ok. Twice forgiven, but if for the tenth time, i don't have the answer. I'm confused with this kind of people. For me, when facing this kind of people i'll put my guard up. To be honest, i am afraid to be hurt by people that know be the best. I know it's not fair for me to ask people to open up to me, while I closed my heart to them. It is just my protective shell. But think about it. Shell is not very hard, you can broke them if you know the way..ha...
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